“I’ve lived in New York City for over a decade, but I’ve never once been to a New York City restaurant on Valentine’s Day. New York City restaurants are some of the most romantic places in the world. And yet. When it comes to date night — whether that’s on Valentine’s Day or any other day of the year — I prefer going big at home. Here's how.”

1. PLAN DESSERT FIRST

"On Valentine's Day, the last thing I personally want to do is spend another hour making dessert. This one comes together with three ingredients, in seven minutes flat — which is why it's perfect for V-Day, yes, but also for every date night after that, and also just for you on your couch any night of the week."

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2. SET A FANCY TABLE

3. TOAST WITH SOMETHING SPARKLY

4. OR MAKE THEM A MARTINI

"I believe that one of the best ways to make someone feel loved and seen is to make them a martini exactly how they like it — in a glass you've already pre-chilled in the freezer, of course."

5. SPARK UP A MOOD

6. WRITE A REAL CARD

7. FLOWERS ARE A PERFECT GIFT — ESPECIALLY IN A BEAUTIFUL VASE